The instructional Video Series that Taught Me How To Do Sex
The instructional Video Series that Taught Me How To Do Sex

The Video Series that Taught Me How To Do Sex

I am one of those men who received a lot of criticism from women in the bedroom over the years. I really needed to learn how to do sex. I could never seem to make women happy in a relationship, and I experienced a fair amount of rejection when I was dating women and we would start to get physical together, and then I would often not hear from them again. It really began to affect my confidence, and I started to keep to myself a bit more after a few too many failed relationships.

I had been thinking about getting back out there recently, but I had developed a lot of insecurities around whether or not I knew how to do sex. Most of my confidence had been shot, and the idea of attempting to engage with a woman that way again had become pretty overwhelming. So I had been avoiding the whole dating scene for quite some time.

I was relieved when I found a video series that promised to teach me how to please a woman and how to do sex. I was looking for something that would give me a set of tools I could use, and that would show me how to recognize when a woman is enjoying herself. I wanted to see some instruction on what to do to make a woman lose her mind in bed.

One day, I took to the internet and looked up videos about how to please a woman and I found a video course called “The Best She Ever Had.” I was so thrilled to discover a course that promised to teach a wide range of ways to stimulate women, with live demonstrations of everything. I felt like I found a treasure trove of how to have sex viewing material.

Curious to learn more about how to do sex?

As I perused the website looking at the descriptions of the videos, I got excited while looking at the wide variety of viewing options.

There were videos focused on erotic massage for women, which was essentially a how to do sex full body massage that culminates in a pussy massage.
There were videos focused on other forms of massage, like breast massage and anal massage.
There is a how to do sex video focused on g-spot massage. There were videos focused on providing multi-point stimulation.
There were how to do sex videos focused on intercourse and penetration. There was even a video about double penetration. All of these promised to teach me how to please a woman in many new ways.

I was so excited to watch an instructor take me through a demonstration of each of these techniques. Not only was I going to find some fascinating viewing material, but I was going to learn some new techniques to use the next time I want to prove I know how to please a woman.

I purchased the course and got myself set up for a little viewing party. I discovered that I loved to watch the women in their pleasure, and pace my own self pleasure with the video. It was like a game – I would often edge myself, but not let myself have an orgasm until the woman on the video did. I could spend a good chunk of my time in such activities, so I was definitely excited.

In my bedroom with my laptop, I decided which video focused on how to please a woman I was going to view first. I decided to start with the video focused on the simple erotic massage. It seemed like a strong foundation to build upon when it comes to pleasure skills. I got comfortable and pressed play.

Watching how to have sex videos

The first how to do sex video began with a woman lying naked, face down on a massage table, and the instructor stroked her body from head to foot, using long slow strokes, while explaining the importance of allowing a woman to fully relax when she is receiving pleasure. Apparently, there is a pelvic nerve that is activated when she relaxes fully that effectively turns her whole body into a giant pleasure receptor.

I watched the woman’s body sink fully into the massage table, her breathing growing deeper and slower. The instructor took some time to sit up by her head and play with her hair and lightly massage her scalp. He explained how places that are normally not erogenous can become erogenous when a woman is fully relaxed.

The instructor went back to those long, slow body strokes, and then began to describe his teasing strategy. He dipped his fingers down along the sides of her breasts, lightly sliding his fingers across her nipples underneath her, and then down the sides of her waist. He rubbed around her hips, and lightly dragged his fingers along the skin in her butt crack, and down in between her thighs. He went down by her feet, and pulled each of her legs open wider, exposing her pussy and ass to view.

I could tell the woman was getting quite turned on at this point. Her breathing was getting more rapid and her body was getting a bit squirmy. The instructor explained that once again he was making a choice to slow things down, and he went to give some attention to her feet, gently sliding his fingers between her toes and finding all the spots that seemed to speak directly to her clit. The instructor pointed out all these little clues.

The instructor explained how his goal was to draw out her pleasure for as long as possible before she has an orgasm, giving her as many different forms of stimulation as possible before building her toward an orgasm. He purposely moved around her body to different places, not giving her too much in any one particular area.

From her feet, he moved his hands up the back of her legs and massaged her hips and butt cheeks. He slid his fingers down along her butt crack and up along the insides of her thighs. He softly dragged his fingers up along her labia, and gently tickled her clit. The woman’s body began to writhe a bit on the table, her hips rocking a little bit. It was a huge turn on watching her start to lose control of her body’s natural impulses. She was losing herself to pleasure – so hot.

As she began to get more and more turned on, he asked her to flip over on the table onto her back. Once again, he moved her feet open wider on the table, exposing her pussy to the open air and to the view of the camera. He once again treated her body to long slow strokes along the length of her body, and then he settled himself by her breasts.

It was highly erotic to watch him sit and play with her breasts, caressing the skin on the sides and undersides, gently stroking her nipples, making them harden under his touch. He occasionally reached down with one hand between her legs to slide his fingers along her labia and tickling her clit. I could tell by now the woman was losing her mind a bit. She was aching for her orgasm.

As her writhing became more intense, the instructor finally decided it was time to move down by her hips and focus his attention on her pussy. He described his slow and intentional movements, not allowing things to get too intense for her, still making her wait for her orgasm.

He slowly teased the outside of her vaginal opening, excruciatingly slowly dipping his finger inside her, a millimeter at a time. With his other hand, he slowly pinched and grasped at her clit. When she seemed to be close to an orgasm, he would slow down his movements.

His finger found her g-spot on the inside, and the woman began to moan. He found a rhythm and followed the flow of her body’s movements and he worked her up to a massive climax. It was so sexy watching her body convulse and vibrate with the pleasure of the huge orgasm she was having.

I went on to watch the rest of the how to do sex videos in the series and I learned a tremendous amount about how to have sex. The next time I had an opportunity to connect with a woman that way, it was a completely different experience for me. I felt confident, I felt like I had some new skills to play with and also some tools for talking to a woman about what she enjoys. I would not have guessed that I would get to experience such confidence, given where I started. I am amazed!

Sexual Containment

Sexual Containment

Energetic containment is healthy, and an important aspect of being conscious of oneself and one’s impact on others. It’s also a concept that is newly evolving, that many people are not even aware of. It begins with the recognition that we as humans are communicating and interacting with each other energetically, and we truly feel both emotional energy and sexual energy that is directed our way. It is important to learn how to create these boundaries, and to learn how to clean up leaky sexual energy.


sexual Spectatoring and healing

It taught my husband how to give me some pretty mind-blowing pleasure. His technique has improved ten-fold! Yoni massage has changed everything for us in the bedroom. I highly recommend diving into the video series – The Best She’s Ever Had!



Yoni massage healed a giant rift in my relationship and in my connection with my own body – it allowed us to directly communicate in a new way, and life between us has not been the same since. I’m so glad I found yoni massage and was able to heal my relationship with my own body, and my interoception, so my husband and I could engage with each other in this new way.

My Husband Has Lost Interest In Me Sexually

My Husband Has Lost Interest In Me Sexually

There are always new games and techniques to explore. The video I am looking forward to next is the one about playing with sex toys. We have so many new things to try in bed, but we have a trip to the toy store to make first! I definitely no longer think that my husband has lost interest in me sexually!

Orgasm Porn

Orgasm Porn for Women

I definitely discovered one of the best orgasm porn video collections on the internet. Receiving the education while enjoying absorbing all of her little pleasure indicators. The whole course was a great addition to my collection.

Video Tutorials

Sex Video tutorials teaching sensual massage for couples

These video tutorials took us to places in pleasure that we might not have discovered, otherwise. I now feel so much more intimately connected with my husband. It feels like he is truly present with me and my pleasure, and that kind of attention and connection feels so good. Our whole marriage has really improved.

How to make a woman orgasm

How to make a woman orgasm

I am now equipped with plenty of education when it comes to how to make a woman orgasm. I’m really excited to practice with a woman and show off my new skills. This video course is incredibly thorough, and taught me so much.

Erotic Sex Videos

Erotic sex videos for couples

It was eye opening to me that one of the most pleasurable things for women is when a man is completely present with what is happening with her body, because that kind of presence brings with it a safety that allows her to fully relax and receive the pleasure in her body. It was really juicy to discover a series of erotic sex videos that had further things to teach me about feminine pleasure. I’m thankful there are men who have dedicated themselves to bringing awareness to this cause.

Orgasm Video

orgasm video

I highly recommend the series to anyone looking to study genuine pleasure experiences, and how to read someone’s pleasure responses in real time. I feel like a much more confident lover now that I have watched this orgasm video series and absorbed all that I learned.

Passionate Sex Videos

Passionate Sex Videos

I was beyond excited to check out the rest of the passionate sex videos in the course. There were sure to be a lot of examples of really sexy orgasms that were genuine. I absolutely love watching a woman’s body for pleasure cues, and this course gave me so many opportunities to view that. I highly recommend it.

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