The Video Series that Taught Me How to Please a Woman
I am one of those men who received a lot of criticism from women in the bedroom over the years. I really needed to learn how to please a woman. I could never seem to make women happy in a relationship, and I experienced a fair amount of rejection when I was dating women and we would start to get physical together, and then I would often not hear from them again. It really began to affect my confidence, and I started to keep to myself a bit more after a few too many failed relationships.
I had been thinking about getting back out there recently, but I had developed a lot of insecurities around whether or not I knew how to please a woman. Most of my confidence had been shot, and the idea of attempting to engage with a woman that way again had become pretty overwhelming. So I had been avoiding the whole dating scene for quite some time.
I was relieved when I found a video series that promised to teach me how to please a woman. I was looking for something that would give me a set of tools I could use, and that would show me how to recognize when a woman is enjoying herself.
One day, I took to the internet and looked up videos about how to please a woman and I found a video course called “The Best She Ever Had.” I was so thrilled to discover a course that promised to teach a wide range of ways to stimulate women, with live demonstrations of everything. I felt like I found a treasure trove of viewing material.
As I perused the website looking at the descriptions of the videos, I got excited while looking at the wide variety of viewing options. There were videos focused on erotic massage for women, which was essentially a full body massage that culminates in a pussy massage. There were videos focused on other forms of massage, like breast massage and anal massage. There videos focused on g-spot massage. There were videos focused on providing multi-point stimulation. There were videos focused on intercourse and penetration. There was even a video about double penetration. All of these promised to teach me how to please a woman in many new ways.
I was so excited to watch an instructor take me through a demonstration of each of these techniques. Not only was I going to find some fascinating viewing material, but I was going to learn some new techniques to use the next time I want to prove I know how to please a woman.
I purchased the course and got myself set up for a little viewing party. I discovered that I loved to watch the women in their pleasure, and pace my own self pleasure with the video. It was like a game – I would often edge myself, but not let myself have an orgasm until the woman on the video did. I could spend a good chunk of my time in such activities, so I was definitely excited.
In my bedroom with my laptop, I decided which video focused on how to please a woman I was going to view first. I decided to start with the video focused on the simple erotic massage. It seemed like a strong foundation to build upon when it comes to pleasure skills. I got comfortable and pressed play.
The video began with a woman lying naked, face down on a massage table, and the instructor stroked her body from head to foot, using long slow strokes, while explaining the importance of allowing a woman to fully relax when she is receiving pleasure. Apparently, there is a pelvic nerve that is activated when she relaxes fully that effectively turns her whole body into a giant pleasure receptor.
I watched the woman’s body sink fully into the massage table, her breathing growing deeper and slower. The instructor took some time to sit up by her head and play with her hair and lightly massage her scalp. He explained how places that are normally not erogenous can become erogenous when a woman is fully relaxed.
The instructor went back to those long, slow body strokes, and then began to describe his teasing strategy. He dipped his fingers down along the sides of her breasts, lightly sliding his fingers across her nipples underneath her, and then down the sides of her waist. He rubbed around her hips, and lightly dragged his fingers along the skin in her butt crack, and down in between her thighs. He went down by her feet, and pulled each of her legs open wider, exposing her pussy and ass to view.
I could tell the woman was getting quite turned on at this point. Her breathing was getting more rapid and her body was getting a bit squirmy. The instructor explained that once again he was making a choice to slow things down, and he went to give some attention to her feet, gently sliding his fingers between her toes and finding all the spots that seemed to speak directly to her clit. The instructor pointed out all these little clues.
The instructor explained how his goal was to draw out her pleasure for as long as possible before she has an orgasm, giving her as many different forms of stimulation as possible before building her toward an orgasm. He purposely moved around her body to different places, not giving her too much in any one particular area.
From her feet, he moved his hands up the back of her legs and massaged her hips and butt cheeks. He slid his fingers down along her butt crack and up along the insides of her thighs. He softly dragged his fingers up along her labia, and gently tickled her clit. The woman’s body began to writhe a bit on the table, her hips rocking a little bit. It was a huge turn on watching her start to lose control of her body’s natural impulses. She was losing herself to pleasure – so hot.
As she began to get more and more turned on, he asked her to flip over on the table onto her back. Once again, he moved her feet open wider on the table, exposing her pussy to the open air and to the view of the camera. He once again treated her body to long slow strokes along the length of her body, and then he settled himself by her breasts.
It was highly erotic to watch him sit and play with her breasts, caressing the skin on the sides and undersides, gently stroking her nipples, making them harden under his touch. He occasionally reached down with one hand between her legs to slide his fingers along her labia and tickling her clit. I could tell by now the woman was losing her mind a bit. She was aching for her orgasm.
As her writhing became more intense, the instructor finally decided it was time to move down by her hips and focus his attention on her pussy. He described his slow and intentional movements, not allowing things to get too intense for her, still making her wait for her orgasm.
He slowly teased the outside of her vaginal opening, excruciatingly slowly dipping his finger inside her, a millimeter at a time. With his other hand, he slowly pinched and grasped at her clit. When she seemed to be close to an orgasm, he would slow down his movements.
His finger found her g-spot on the inside, and the woman began to moan. He found a rhythm and followed the flow of her body’s movements and he worked her up to a massive climax. It was so sexy watching her body convulse and vibrate with the pleasure of the huge orgasm she was having.
I went on to watch the rest of the videos in the series and I learned a tremendous amount about how to please a woman. The next time I had an opportunity to connect with a woman that way, it was a completely different experience for me. I felt confident, I felt like I had some new skills to play with and also some tools for talking to a woman about what she enjoys. I would not have guessed that I would get to experience such confidence, given where I started. I am amazed!